3 Ways to Start a New Year with a Different Dating Approach
Hey, it’s a whole new year and if one of your decisions is to start the New Year with a different dating approach, this article might help.
So listen, there are many things you can change if you want to start the New Year with different dating approaches. I think the first step is to know which behavior, about your dating habit, you want to change. 3 Ways to Start a New Year with a Different Dating Approach
Take the time to determine where you “misbehaved” so you can make the necessary changes make sense. You can not just go around making changes one by one, you have to approach a lot more objectively so you do not stop doing the things you should do.
So try these tips to help you identify your mistakes so you can make changes:
1. If you are unsure of what mistakes you made in your dating life, ask your friends and family. They will be happy to let you know. In fact, they may already have it, you may not want to listen to it.
If someone you trust says that you are too quick to settle on someone or you are too easy to ignore the warning signs at the beginning of the relationship, you should listen to them.
This is the kind of constructive criticism you can learn and use as a basis for changing your views and approaches in dating.
2. If possible, you may want to consider several visits to the counselor. Some people feel insulted by this type of advice, they think of it as a sign that they are doing something wrong. 3 Ways to Start a New Year with a Different Dating Approach
But going to a counselor is just a way for you to get some advice from someone who is really objective. Even the best of your friends can not be completely objective.
That does not mean that you do not get good advice from your friends, it means a counselor can add another element. Well, your friend might make the same mistake with you, so it may be the case of the blind leading the blind.
It’s much less likely to happen if you see someone who is professionally trained to help you diagnose issues you may have with respect to your relationship.
3. Once you identify some of the most unhelpful aspects of your dating life, you need to set up a specific game plan to make changes. For most of us, it’s not enough to just say “I need to make a change”.
For the most part, if we are not specific we will not get results. So try it out, and ask your friend and / or counselor to ask for this help, to make a special plan for making changes. 3 Ways to Start a New Year with a Different Dating Approach
For example, let’s say you are too prone to move too fast. Why not make a “deal” with yourself so you will not talk about substituting to the next level for at least 2 months. Or you will wait until your partner picks up.
Look, it is something very specific that you can do to help you stop doing the destructive things you have done in your relationship.
I hope this helps. Good luck with your goal of starting the New Year with a different dating approach. This is a worthy goal and with this tip may just be an easier goal to maintain, then you think it will happen.